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delayedThere was trial and tribulation, then triumph. In 2020, I learned that I would not be afforded the opportunity of an in-person commencement or hooding. Covid had seemingly taken away every celebratory moment that I had earned for obtaining my Ph.D. I struggled with the delay. I tried to work around it, but to my dismay, I was left at the drawing board with crayons that wouldn’t color. I cried like a baby. Getting a Ph.D. is hard - AS HELL - and I was left with this feeling of never really being done because nothing truly commenced the moment. The delay was exhausting, especially when I saw other schools having traditional commencements. However, what is for you will always be for you. That's it. That's the tweet! ..but not denied!A few months after my virtual commencement in December 2020, I learned of my institution’s plan to celebrate ALL graduates in the spring of 2021 - GOD SAID!! Not only was I able to participate in a traditional commencement, I was also able to have a celebration with my family and friends. You know they say third time's a charm? My Ph.D. was my third degree and my second from Jackson State. As an undergrad, I wasn't able to walk in The Vet, and this time I would be. Nothing compares to the energy of that stadium and I could not wait to take part. Kudos to my mom and granny for jump starting the planning process and my dad for making sure I had things in order. I kept saying "this is their party. I'm just here." Lol. The thing is, I knew that moment for me was just as big for them, if not bigger. They were getting to witness the fruits of their labor, as well. Honestly, a beautiful thing for us all. all white everythingWhy white? White symbolizes freshness and new beginnings. Also, I mean come on guys, it’s me. Do I do anything without intention? Anywho! People often ask “what’s next” after someone graduates and honestly I don’t have an answer. I do know that I’m in a space to receive newness, make changes, and embark on a new journey. The energy was vibrant. You just had to be there. I felt so at peace. Just living in the moment. As I scrolled through photos over and over, my heart smiled each time. I was so happy that weekend. The delay was well worth the wait. I shared this moment with support system, and now I'm sharing it with you. the takeawaysGod has something better. When God says not right now, he is preparing a moment of which you can’t quite imagine. Celebrate yourself. There is no need to feel guilty about celebrating yourself, buying that bag, or focusing on what YOU want. It's good for the soul. It doesn't matter. It matters not who, what, or where as long as you and your good spirit are there. Purpose. Everything that is supposed to happen, does. Everyone who is supposed to be there, will. Everything that is meant, will be intentional. There is purpose in it all. the crewOf course, I want to take a moment to acknowledge all of the black businesses that showed up and showed out for me. Five out of Five stars. Highly recommend. Juiced by Jen Catering Will Robinson w/ Robinson Photography Décor Balloons Sartorial Tobacconist Millie Jean: Make Up Artist Ashia Clark: Hairstylist TJ the DJ Kizer: Bartending
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